You have problems with your spouse? You unhappy in marriage? You can’t find understanding with your spouse? You can visit a marriage counsel to find a way out.
Marriage counseling – it’s a stream of psychotherapy which targeted on relationships between spouses. According to research in this area a lot of things increase a risk of divorce and most of these problems lie deeper, than you can think – even bad education can cause controversy between marrieds.
This research shows that nowadays marriage council shifts from the field of “healing” to the field of “prophylaxis”. This will cause that influence of marriage counseling on number of “happy marriages” will increase in future.
AAMFT mark out couples, for which marriage counseling the most effective – loving couples, newlyweds, couples with mutual respect, and for which the least effective – unsociable couples, when one of spouses already decided to be divorced, couples which pass “critical point” in relationships.
There was another interesting data, which was collected by AAMFT study – they allocate characteristics, which families will get the most benefit from marriage counseling and which – the smallest, the most valuable of these characteristics are stated above.
On basis of these studies scientists summarize some answers for the next questions: - When you need to visit marriage counseling? Better to visit marriage counseling for prophylaxis, but in some cases you need to visit psychoanalyst – when you can’t find mutual understanding with your spouse, when you feel unhappy all the time, when you frequently quarrel with husband (wife), etc. - What reasons can cause problems in marriage? Hasty marriage, low income of couple, problems of nurture, inter-faith marriage, career problems, dissatisfaction of spouses in work or in spouse, etc. - What couples can get the most from counseling? Newlyweds, sweethearts, sociable and ready for changes couples. - What couples can get the least from counseling? Couples, which already prepared to divorce, unsociable couples.
What you should do to have a happy marriage? The main basis of happy marriage is: desire of couple to resolve problems and to prevent them in future, friendship and mutual respect between spouses.
Most of the researchers and surveyors believe, that marriage counseling can reduce number of spouses in future, and there is nothing discreditable to visit marriage counselor – you will gain only positive experience and, maybe, this visit will change all your own life and your relationships with spouse.
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