The United States has many traditions when it comes to weddings. Knowing this it makes sense that other, older countries would have their own set of accepted occurrences when it comes to tying two people together. Traditional Russian weddings can be difficult to organize but for Russian brides the extra effort is worth every moment in the end.
In a Russian wedding the titles of best man and maid of honor are changed slightly. Instead these people are called witnesses, or “svideteli”. The celebration of a marital joining frequently lasts for at least two days but can go on for longer.
Some things in traditional Russian marriages are the same as in American ones. One of these things is the time it takes to put the wedding together. A Russian wedding can take between one and six months. The marriage registration takes place in a “Zags” as opposed to our American courthouses.
As a symbol for hopeful longevity, health, and prosperity the new couple is given gifts of bread and salt. These are more than just food. They are the one of the ways for the older generation to bless the new couple.
This bread is even more important to the couple itself. Besides the blessings of their parents the bread is also a symbol of power and sharing. They each take a bite of this bread and whoever has taken the biggest bite is assumed to be the head of the family. This is a visual prop to allow them to see the give and take of marriage.
Another custom that we have in the States that is also used in the traditional Russian weddings is toasts. Toasts are where a friend or relative stands up and says something about the newly formed couple. After that a drink is shared by the entire room as a sort of well wishing.
In Russian tradition once a toast is made the glasses are thrown on the floor. If the glasses break when they hit the ground it is believed to be good luck. However, if the shards draw blood this may be considered a bad omen, so, just like in marriage you have to know when to put force, how much, and you have to take careful aim before you toss anything!
One of the most interesting customs in a traditional Russian wedding is known as Krazha Nevesty. This means “stealing the bride” and it is exactly as it sounds. That’s right; if the groom fails to watch his bride closely he may just end up without a wife.
Wedding celebrations can quickly turn into a bad nightmare for the groom if he’s not watching his woman closely. Friends and family of the groom will execute elaborate schemes in order to kidnap his bride and force him to pay a random to get her back.
Being one of these Russian brides can be just as nerve wrecking as being any other kind of bride. There are tons of things you have to remember, all the while taking one of the biggest steps towards your future. Still, it’s important to remember that on your wedding day you’re supposed to be happy. Smile, you’re getting married!
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