Women Dump Men For 4 Reasons

May 15th, 2010 by loveama Leave a reply »

There are four reasons why women dump men. With as little as one of these things in the relationship, the woman will eventually leave the man. We will discuss the four key reasons as to why women leave men so that you can examine your own relationship and conclude if it is at risk.

The first factor is control, which is a something that could either come from the man or woman. When either of the partners is controlling, it will eventually make the other, no matter how great the relationship may be otherwise. Women specifically like being independent in this day and age, so give her some time to herself from time to time. However women will need some occasional space; you just don’t need to be there breathing down her neck all the time. For example, going out with her friends for coffee and “girl talk.” These sorts of things are basically just a means that allows women to relax and get rid of some stress.

The next cause is jealousy. Nothing is more hurtful to a relationship than a jealous man following his woman and what she is doing. Jealousy is a perceived power trip that needs to be handled. The woman will be driven away if you have bursts of jealousy. When you let jealousy rear it’s head, you are doubting her love and her fidelity. Every instance that the man shows jealousy, he is hurting the relationship.

The next cause is that the woman does not want a man that is weak, since women tend to be most attracted to confident men that stand up for themselves (and their women). Women are searching for a man that can take charge situations and not someone that is needy and always expects someone else to step up and take care of things. A woman craves someone that is strong, knowing that her man can take care of her when the chips are down. So begin to make some decisions, stand up for yourself, and be confident.

The last thing is that no one likes to live with a bum. A woman desires love and desires security and to know that she is provided for. Your woman will probably resent you and eventually leave you if you just spend your time being a couch potato. Focus on finding something you can devote your life to and get extremely passionate about it. Women feel uncontrollable attraction toward men that have a calling in life–why do you think so many women fall for musicians and artist? A woman likes to boast about how exciting her man is and how he makes her feel. This won’t happen if you just watch TV all day.

If you can control these four things in your relationship, you will have a long stable relationship with any woman. If you find any of these four things in yourself then you will probably have a hard time establishing a lasting relationship with any woman.

If you found this article helpful and are looking for more information on what to do after you’ve been dumped, check out Why Women Breakup with Men, Why She Left You, and Jason Hicks’ Second Chance Romance Review.

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